Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Elephant Time!


Here are the questions I will be addressing with the Senior High gals tonight as Cindi Lantz Interviews me...
  • Why are guys so confusing and hard to figure out?
  • Why can't they be more sensitive?
  • Why do they say mean things to us and then when you get mad, they say, “I’m just joking”?
  • Why do guys pick on you when they like you?
  • What are guys thinking when they are making out with a girl?
  • What are guys thinking when girls have swimsuits on?
  • Do guys ever day dream about the girl they are going to marry? Maybe not a specific person but do they think about what it’s going to be like, like we do?
  • Why does it take so long for them to know you love them?
  • Why are guys so competitive?
  • Why is it more likely for girls to pledge abstinence?
  • Why do girls get looked down on for having sex when guys get even cooler?
  • Why do guys act differently with friends than they do with you?
  • Why can’t guys just be themselves around girls?
  • Why do guys just judge by looks?
  • Why do guys always get the excuse of being visual? Why can’t they just not do/look at bad things?
  • What is the best way we can behave to help guys not to look lustfully at us?
  • How can we, as girls (women) help our brothers in Christ to not stumble? How can we just help them w/ problems and be there for them?
  • What qualities does a guy look for in a short team and long term relationship?
  • What do they respect in girls?
I'm excited and nervous at the same time.

2 comments:

Dan said...

This is going to sound creepy coming from a married father of 1 and a half, but I'm curious about your answers to those questions. You know, Sophie turns two next week, and with all the pressure kids are under these days...

Unknown said...

Wow! You hit it out of the ballpark last night, Derry. I really was amazed at your answers. I know the Holy Spirit was working through you to show our HS girls how valuable they are. I am praising God today for His amazing work through you. I am so thankful you are in our lives.