Monday, November 30, 2009
10 for the 2000s
Over the month of December, I'll be doing a series of posts remembering 2000-2009 by posting lists of 10 (some top ten, some just 10). Enjoy!
Noiseless
Then it dawned on me.
When we weren't talking, it was dead silent out there.
No Electronics pumping out Music, TV, Movies, or Talk Radio.
No Office noise like voices chattering in the next room.
No humming of a computer, keyboard typing, or halogen lights buzzing.
No Farm equipment running.
Noiseless.
I didn't like it at first. It was eerily quiet. Then my body started slowing down a little bit. I realized how much noise has been going on in my life over the past 6 weeks. There was the Audible noise like the things mentioned above, but it has also been the noise of projects, thoughts, questions, reviewing conversations, confrontations, etc.
As I soaked in noiseless, I began to catch a glimpse of God in the beauty around me, and I believe I also caught His gentle whisper saying, "You need more noiseless, buddy."
I needed noiseless on Monday afternoon last week. I need noiseless a little more often. It reminds me what's important. It also reminds me that I'm not as important as I sometimes think I am.
God's really big, and it blows me away how often I find him in the silence.
Then a great and powerful wind tore the mountains apart and shattered the rocks before the LORD, but the LORD was not in the wind. After the wind there was an earthquake, but the LORD was not in the earthquake. After the earthquake came a fire, but the LORD was not in the fire. And after the fire came a gentle whisper.
3 Posts to Make You think
Austin Hostetter graduated from NMC last year and is attending Ball State University. Austin was very politically active in his High School years, and would label himself as a political conservative. In this post, he explains why evangelicals his age may be swinging to "the left", why an older generation may be freaking out, and why they may not need to freak out too much. It's a great read. Check out "a demographic change in evangelical voters."
Adam Cramer (2003 NMC grad) is currently in Africa finishing up a term serving with J-Life International. Adam gives a bit of a rant in this post on his holy disdain toward Black Friday. It's a little hard to swallow, but the truth runs thick in "Happy Consumerism Day."
Ryan Yazel (former NMC Intern) is the pastor at Keller Park Church in South Bend. He throws out a huge challenge in this post toward the church on how we respond to the day a person turns 18. Check out "The Worst Days of their Lives."
I like being challenged/inspired when I read blogs. Thanks to these 3 for doing so!
Kids In Need Sunday Message
To me, this may be one of the most important messages I've shared at NMC. If you want to watch and listen to it... go HERE. (I recommend watching if possible)
Sunday, November 29, 2009
I'm Back and Ready to Blog
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Thanksgiving
- 2 years with a beautiful daughter.
- 9 1/2 years with an amazing wife.
- 15 years marked by a Savior.
- 32 1/2 years with a great Father.
- Eternity.
Week 12 Picks
Green Bay at Detroit - Detroit is hurting after a great game last week (I swallow hard when I say "great game" considering it was against Cleveland).
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Hitting the Road
I hope to at least put up a response to my movie viewing experience last night.
Saturday, November 21, 2009
Silent Auction Stories: Part 4 of 5
Peyton Manning Autographed Picture
This item was donated by a Small Group Leader. About 6 weeks ago, he came to me after a Wednesday Night and said he was thinking he needed to get involved in the Silent Auction. He told me he was a huge sports nut with lots of collectibles. He decided that he needed to donate his most prized possession.
You can bid on it here.
Brett Favre Autographed Mini-Helmet
I was blown away when a Junior guy told me he would be donating this. He is a huge Green Bay and Brett Favre fan. This was no easy sacrifice for him. I'm still shocked at the current bid for this item.
Bid for it here.
Friday, November 20, 2009
Lunar Happenings
More than a week before its Nov. 20 release, "New Moon" had sold more than four times as many tickets as "Twilight" at MovieTickets.com at the same point in the sales cycle, with more than 1,300 sold-out performances -- including 900 midnight performances.
my new moon frenzy is still goin! hyped up on monsters (the only energy i have) last night didnt get very much sleep but im ready to go see NEW MOON again! :) gotta love the twihards!
- I believe this movie could potentially beat out Titanic as top-grossing film. I know that seems crazy. Many say the factor to put Titanic so far over the top is the amount of preteen and teen girls who, suffering from what was labeled "Leo-mania" went back 6-10 times to see the film. MTV has hyped this movie like it's going out of style. The amount of fan freakout from the "Twi-hards" is insane. I've been pretty surprised by the high level of 20-30 year olds (primarily females) who are completely hooked by the books as well. I don't know if it will happen, but I'll just say I won't be surprised if this sets some box office records.
- I wonder how many moms (or dads) and teen/tween daughters have set up "dates" to go see this movie together? I know of a few. I hope there are a lot. I hope there is some discussion on the way home. I hope there are questions like the following:Publish Post
- Do you think there is an Edward Cullen (maybe not a vampire, but a guy that possesses his qualities) out there? What about Jacob Black?
- Who do you think shows more respect to Bella?
- Who do you think loves Bella more?
- Where do you see yourself like Bella and different from Bella?
- What message(s) do you think were being shared in this movie?
- What are the messages you would say line up with your beliefs and how you want to live your life?
- What are the messages you would say do not line up with your beliefs or how you want to live your life?
- How would you say this movie defines love?
- Do you think the depression Bella fell in after Edward left was healthy? Romantic? why?
Silent Auction Stories - Part 3 of 5
Ceramic Caroler Set

H-35 Ceramic Caroler Set
These ceramic carolers were handpainted by a High School Junior gal named Morgan . They are approximately 2 feet tall, and took her 7 years to complete. After finishing them, she had many thoughts on what she could do... ultimately, she decided the best choice was to help orphans in Kenya find health and hope!
You can bid for this item here.
4GB Apple Ipod

E-3 4GB Apple Ipod
Donated by a Freshman who explains, “When God first gave me the idea to give up my Ipod, I was all for it. But then I kept trying to tell myself that it wouldn’t be a big deal if I didn’t. In the end, I know that I had to because God was trying to teach me about sacrifice.
You can bid for this item here.
Wednesday, November 18, 2009
Silent Auction Stories: Part 2 of 5
Kenyan Giraffe

K-8: Kenyan Giraffe
Approximately 2′ Tall. Handcrafted in Kenya.
The story behind this item:
“This giraffe was given to us by Jeremiah and John. They are two Kenyan owners of a curio shop in downtown Nakuru. We have been taking our teams to his shop for over three years. Part of the proceeds from their curio shop help support the ministry for local street kids. During our October trip Jeremiah overheard us talking about the upcoming “Kids In Need” auction at NMC. As we were ready to leave he told me to pick anything from his store as a gift for the auction. When I picked up something small, he said, “No, no. Take something bigger”! Then he asked if I could get this giraffe back in our suitcase. When I told him I probably could, he insisted we take it to put in the auction. It lost an ear in the journey, but I was able to glue it back on. Just wanted you to know the story behind the giraffe!” (from Jamie Lengacher)Bid on this Item here.
Handmade KIN Bookshelf

H-36 Handmade KIN Bookshelf
Freshman, Benjamin Hoover made this in his High School wood shop class. He could have easily just done a normal project and gotten the grade he needed. Instead, he decided to take it and do something more with it. It's a very nice Shelf... about 4x3 feet, and right now it's selling for much less than it should.
Bid on it here.
Trafficking: GAIN Awareness
PBS did a fantastic documentary on the issue of trafficking between Nepal and India. In the video, Gary Haugen and International Justice Mission are highlighted. One of our Blue Cup jugs is the International Justice Mission. It's almost an hour, but it is a great education on one of the greatest injustices taking place in our world today.
Just another reminder that God is our Baal-Perazim (The God who Breaksthrough-2 Sam. 5:20).
Also, Kalyn Lantz has shared with us about Tiny Hands International, a ministry dedicated to rescuing children along the borders of Nepal and Bangladeshi into India. I just read this on her blog today:
I just got word that God is using Tiny Hands to rescue 5-10 girls a day who are being trafficked from Nepal to India. That is 1825-3650 girls a year. That is over 25% of the 10,000 girls who are being trafficked annually.
Just another reminder that God is our Baal-Perazim (The God who Breaksthrough-2 Sam. 5:20).
Silent Auction Stories - Part 1 of 5
Part of the beauty of this event is the multiple levels in which the GIVE sacrificially in our GAIN, GIVE, LIVE focus unfolds. Those who have donated have given sacrificially of time, talents, and treasures. Those who are bidding then have the opportunity to give sacrificially of their treasures. In the end, it all goes to provide life to some of the most beautifual little babies who have been orphaned.
NFL Pick 'em: Week 11
Washington at Dallas
Cleveland at Detroit
San Francisco at Green Bay
Pittsburgh at Kansas City
Atlanta at NY Giants
New Orleans at Tampa Bay
Buffalo at Jacksonville
Indianapolis at Baltimore
Seattle at Minnesota
Arizona at St. Louis
NY Jets at New England
Cincinnati at Oakland
San Diego at Denver
Philadelphia at Chicago
Tennessee at Houston
Saturday, November 14, 2009
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Friday, November 13, 2009
Inundated in Statistics
The combined population of the 9 states in red is equal to the number of kids in Africa who have been orphaned due to AIDS.There are times (many times) these numbers and images simply overwhelm me, but there are one other image that I keep in mind...
Lots of Activity
- Taking pictures of auction items.
- Printing items for the Baby Walk.
- Preparing packets for race day.
- Prepping students for Sunday morning interviews.
- Entering code into the k.i.n. website.
- Preparing displays and auction cards.
Thursday, November 12, 2009
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NFL Pick 'em: Week 10

I'm currently sitting in 4th place after a decent week's pick and three guys failure to turn in picks.
New Orleans at St. Louis
Tampa Bay at Miami
Detroit at Minnesota
Jacksonville at NY Jets
Buffalo at Tennessee - Trent Edwards will fair well in his return.
Cincinnati at Pittsburgh
Denver at Washington
Atlanta at Carolina
Kansas City at Oakland - Seriously, why even play this game?
Seattle at Arizona
Dallas at Green Bay
Philadelphia at San Diego
New England at Indianapolis - Picking this with both my brain and my heart.
Baltimore at Cleveland - Upset Special
Wednesday, November 11, 2009
To Save A Life

The film was written by Youth Pastor Jim Britts, and is set for a January 22 theatrical release.
I'll be honest, I'm not a fan of Christian Movies (there are very few exceptions, End of the Spear is one that comes to mind). I usually find the directing subpar, the acting poor, and the plot lines overly simplistic and cheesy.
I did not find this film to be like that. There are a couple below average performances by supporting cast, but the main characters are fantastic. The story line is engaging, moving, and hits close to home quite a few times (sometimes uncomfortably too close to home). In fact, we had several 11th and 12th Grade Student Leaders present who loved the film and were challenged by it.
The bummer with an indie film like this one is that it may not last very long or get widespread release. At this point, the film is not set to release in our area. There's some things people can do to get it to their area. Here's some suggestions from the makers of the movie.
Today, I sent out three emails to area movie theaters letting them know I'd love to see the movie make it to their theaters.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
Terrific 2s: 2 Prayers

The finale to the series.
Most nights where I'm home for bedtime, I put Katylynn to bed. Our pre-bedtime ritual consists of reading 2 or 3 of her current favorite books and then a couple of stories from her "Bible Book." After that, we pray together. She's learning to say prayers of Thanks... "Jesus, thanks for..." and she finishes it. Every night, I make it a point to pray two things for her.
- God, allow Katylynn to see how much You love her.
- God, teach Katylynn what it means to love You and to love others.
Monday, November 09, 2009
Baby Walk
This weekend has some awesome stuff going on with Kids In Need.5K.I.N. Saturday Morning.
Silent Auction for Baby Center kicks off Saturday at 5K.I.N. and online Sunday.
I'm preaching on the K.I.N. focus this Sunday morning.
Maybe the best kept secret in all this is Sunday Night's BABY WALK. It's a part of our 3-week Sunday Night series called ENGAGE LaRGe at NMC. Each week puts a focus on the Local, Regional, and Global aspects of NMC.
Baby Walk is a Global focus. My wife and several students have organized this experience where you will have the opportunity to walk through the live of 4 different babies associated with AGC Abandoned Baby Center in Kenya. This event will allow participants to better grasp the reality of the AIDS crises in Africa and the hope that the Baby Center is bringing. It puts a face and life to the crisis. I see it as an opportunity for individuals to travel to Kenya without leaving home.
If you're reading this, you should seriously consider blocking out 45 minutes of your Sunday Night sometime between 5:30-7:30 to GAIN awareness on a significant Kids In Need issue!
Terrific 2s: 19-24 Months
I put caca in my mouth - Yup, you read that right. Somewhere along the way, Katylynn decided that her pacifier is called a ca-ca. This would be why she will not be making any trips to Latin America in the near future.- I go poopie on the potty, yay! - We bought her the potty to see if she would be interested. She was. She's far from there, but she's learning that there's a difference between her diaper and her "underwear" (a pull-up). During the day, if she has to go, she will begin to bounce and frantically say, "I got poopies." Fun times.
Sunday, November 08, 2009
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Saturday, November 07, 2009
Terrific 2s: Losing Grandpa... A Repost
Grieving through a 15 Month Old's Eyes
2 Stories:
- Janelle briefly had Katylynn at the viewing (it was closed casket). There was a video with pictures of dad running. As Janelle was walking out, Katylynn pointed at the screen, then shrugged her shoulders as if to say, "Where's Grandpa?"
- After everyone had left the graveside service, I took Katylynn with me to the grave site. I told her that we were saying goodbye to Grandpa and that he loved her very much. I bent down by the flowers, and she grabbed one. I told her she could put the flower on the casket by the others that were there. She did so. I asked her if she wanted to say goodbye to Grandpa. She waved goodbye.
Terrific 2s: 12-18 Months
Meeting Ninnie: Janelle and I admitedly become Disney freaks. I think as we were in the holding pattern to starting our family, our visits to the Disney World Resort allowed us time to recapture our childhood as well as dream of the family to come. Add in Katylynn's blossoming love for all things Minnie, our December trip to Orlando had a pretty special moment when we bumped into her at Hollywood Studios.- Last Christmas with Grandpa: She went sledding. She opened presents. She made Christmas cookies. She had a blast. We had no idea it would be the last one with him, but it was a great Christmas.
Friday, November 06, 2009
Terrific 2s: Months 7-12
- Bedtime: More nights than not, bedtime was my job. We began reading books together, and then I would simply hold her, sing and rock. Sometimes she would fight it, but eventually she would give in and lay her head on my shoulder. In those moments when the breathing became deeper and deeper, I would often think, "There's no better place to be than where I am right now."
- Stay-at-home Dad: In the Fall of '08, Janelle would work Tuesdays and Thursdays. On Tuesdays she'd spend the day with Grandma and Grandpa. On Thursday, it was my baby girl and me. Stroller Walks, trips to the park, and shopping trips were common and fun. We were really worried if we were making a wise choice when Janelle went back to work. Looking back on it now, I'm so happy she got nearly every Tuesday from September '08 to February '09 with my dad, and then Thursdays with me. I'm confident the bonding that happened in those times will pay huge dividends in the future.
Terrific 2s: 2-6 months
Cry Language: Someone told us that if you paid attention to your child's cries, you could tell what he/she wanted. The "I'm tired" cry sounds a little different from the "I'm hungry" cry which sounds different from the "I need changed" cry which sounds different from the "I'm hurt cry." As we tested this out, we felt like "Naaaaa" seemed to coincide with hungry and "Whaaaaa" went pretty close to nap and bed time.
Whether or not it was accurate, it helped us keep in mind that she wasn't just crying to cry. She wasn't colicky, and may have just had a sweet cry, but it rarely got on our nerves.- An Internal Change: A lot changed the way that I did ministry, the way I worked, and the way I viewed things. I think it was an internal change that has had some major external effects. I'll call it "daddy eyes." Holding that little girl, realizing that it was Janelle and my responsibility to love, care, and provide for her. Knowing that I can't control everything that happens to her, but I can control how I'm going to respond to it began to mess with me. I can't look at gals in our youth group the same way. Recognizing that's somebody's daughter makes a move toward compassion over simply pushing toward conversion. Not totally sure how to explain it all, but it was in months 2-6 she changed me... big time!
Silent Auction Deadline this Sunday!
We're doing a Silent Auction to help Kids In Need. All items donated will be auctioned both at NMC and online November 14-22. All proceeds go to the AGC Abandoned Baby Center in Kenya.At this point, here's some of the big dollar items we have donated:
- Big Screen TV
- Hand Crafted End Table
- Recliner
- Brett Favre autographed mini-helmet
- Peyton Manning Autographed picture (framed)
- 4 outdoor fire pits
- PS 2 with DDR pads and game
- Ipod
If you're interested in donating something, items can be turned into the Student Ministries office this Sunday!
The Terrific 2s: Home and rolling
Bottles and Diapers: Saturday, November 10, we arrived home around 11:00 p.m. As I look back at it now, it feels like what commenced was 2 months of bottle feedings and diaper changes. It was during that time I gave Katylynn the nickname "Poops McGee." As I think back on it, I remember a lot of joy and peace in our home as well. God's faithfulness was so tangible in those early days as we were (and still are) seeing the most unlikely answer to a 6 1/2 year long prayer.
- Dad Holding Her: It wasn't as big a deal at the time, but it's a huge memory I carry with me now. The Sunday after we brought her home, my parents came over for lunch and met their Granddaughter. After lunch, my dad sat on the couch and held his granddaughter for the first time. The mental photo of a proud and loving grandpa looking down at his baby granddaughter is etched in my brain now. On I'll carry with me.
Thursday, November 05, 2009
Terrific 2s: The Hospital

- The First time I held her: She was asleep in her little plastic crib when we arrived. Candy (birth grandmother) took her out and handed her to Janelle. After a few minutes (at 9:38, give or take 30 seconds) Janelle handed her to me and I held my daughter for the first time. Until that moment, holding newborns absolutely freaked me out. It was always awkward. I was afraid I would drop the tiny fragile thing I was holding onto. In that moment, I couldn't think of anything more natural. She seemed just as tiny and fragile as any other newborn I held, but this time she was my tiny and fragile.
- The Handoff: We were in a hospital room next to Emily's. A little before 6:00 p.m., Emily rolled the tiny baby in on her bassinet, picked her up, handed her to Janelle, and through tears said, "Here is your daughter." Emily and Candy walked out of the room. I walked over and put my arm around Janelle, put a hand on Katylynn, and tearfully let the moment sit.
NFL Pick 'em: Week 9

Week 9's picks:
- Washington at Atlanta
- Arizona at Chicago - The Bears had a big win last week, but it was against a terrible team. The O-line is pathetic, and the Defense is average. Arizona Offense will win this game.
- Baltimore at Cincinnati - I'm done doubting the Bengals. I've always liked Carson Palmer. I'm glad to see him back and healthy.
- Houston at Indianapolis - This will be a good game. Houston is #2 in the division. They look good. They always play well against Indy. In the end, I say Indy will be the only remaining undefeated at the close of the week.
- Miami at New England - This is painful to choose. I'll be happy if I'm wrong. Miami did go nuts on NE with the Wildcat last year, but the Patriots are clicking and Brady looks healthy. All I'm asking is that Miami beats up the Pats a little bit as we head into next week.
- Green Bay at Tampa Bay - The battle of the Bays. Well, at least two teams with "Bay" in their name are playing. Not going to be much of a battle.
- Kansas City at Jacksonville - Out on a limb on this one. I say LJs benching will spark KC and Cassell will be clicking.
- Carolina at New Orleans - Carolina is better than their record. This is the upset special, by far.
- Detroit at Seattle
- Tennessee at San Francisco
- San Diego at NY Giants - Giants are overdue for a win. San Diego is struggling.
- Dallas at Philadelphia - Miles Austin has arrived.
- Pittsburgh at Denver - Denver, it was fun while it lasted.
The Terrific 2s: Pre-Birth
Before Katylynn was born.
- Fort Wayne Restaurant: We met a17 year old girl named Emily and her mom Candy. It was the first of two meetings prior to Katylynn's birth. Walking into the restaurant, I was tempted to treat it like an "interview" where we needed to sell ourselves to this gal and her mother. At the same time, Janelle and I both knew that we simply had to bring ourselves, share our story, get to know them, and see what God wanted to do.
I had a lot of questions about what we were doing. The whole possibility of this adoption came to us so quickly and the birth was nearly 2 months away. We walked into that restaurant unsure if we were going to pursue it. We walked out certain that we needed to go through the application process. With what could only be God's direction, we had made our choice. - The Phone Call: It was October 23, just 5 days after the tornado had touched down in Nappanee. I had a nasty flu bug that just wasn't going away. I had hugged the porcelein 20 minutes prior to the phone ringing. I heard Janelle:
"Hello"
(pause)
"O, Hi Gina"
I knew this was it, we were about to receive the news. Gina is the adoption coordinator we worked with. In the midst of exhaustion from disaster relief work and a sickness that I was about to hear news that would change everything for us from that point forward. Janelle screamed with delight, ran back to the bedroom and said, "Derry, we're going to have a baby!"
My less than enthusiastic post-puky response was "That's great!" My internal joy was unmatched!
Wednesday, November 04, 2009
The Terrific 2s: Quick Hits
First 2 words (not sure which was first):- Daddy
- Ball
Current 2 favorite words:
- Mine
- No (fantastic)
2 Phrases she uses that make me laugh every time she says them:
- "I got the jumpies."
- "I got poopies."
2 Favorite TV shows:
- Mickey Mouse Clubhouse
- Handy Manny
Honorable Mention - Special Agent Oso (Drives Janelle nuts, so she doesn't watch it much)
The 2 Books I have read to her the most:
- Mr Brown Can Moo, Can You?
- Guess How Much I love You?
2 Favorite Stuffed Animals:
- Ninnie (big Minnie Doll... not to be confused with her other two Minnie dolls "Baby Ninnie" and "Little Ninnie")
- Bubby (Quite possibly the ugliest pink Easter Bunny doll I've ever seen).
2 Favorite Foods:
- Grapes.
- White Cheese.
The Ordinary turning into Extraordinary or Being Faithful in the Little Things
As we continue to move forward in our Kids In Need focus, it's been exciting to see where God is taking it. . As we've researched issues both at home and abroad, we've been moved by the injustices and needs facing kids. We want to do something. We're just a bunch of ordinary people desiring to see the extraordinary take place. The trick? You see, the issue of Kids In Need is so ridiculously overwhelming that we've had trouble coming up with a game plan for those whose hearts have been grabbed, we want to save every kid. We want to...- end world hunger
- stop abortions
- get basic health care to those who need
- pay for kids to go to school
- see every orphan off the streets and with a family
- stop the trafficking to become prostitutes, slaves, or soldiers.
I love how we're wrestling through this all, and I love the lessons I'm seeing us learn. Two blog posts I read this morning are evidence of this happening. They're worth a read.
Katherine Berkey is the heart and soul behind the upcoming 5K.I.N. Learn from her as she shares what she is learning in her post Extraordinary... I think not.
Geoff Cocanower is tearing it up as our in-residence Intern this year. Read some of his reflections in his post The Little things Matter!
Tuesday, November 03, 2009
The Terrific 2s: A Series
Two Sundays I'm Excited About
Next Sunday: I'm in the box, and it's all about Kids In Need. Some students will be helping me with the message. I'm excited about the entire weekend and the amount of students who will be giving sacrificially of their time, talents and treasures to seriously address Kids In Need at home and around the world.







